Celebrating the journey… 1

This early morning I was in a celebratory mode.

Despite all the hiccups, one goal has been met. The result? The book is out! A hardcopy version as well as an ebook version.

Let me give a brief recap. Recently (On my birthday , I announced that I had finally gotten the courage to release a book I d written circa 2015. )

I had originally typed it on my mum’s laptop. But in the process of moving some of my stuff to another device ; I had mistakenly deleted the latest version. This was before the birthday announcement.

Then in March I d found an older version of the manuscript file on my external hard drive  , so I had started working on it on my tablet device just before the birthday.

Immediately I posted about the book on Facebook, I heard the inner voice tell me, email yourself a copy of the manuscript file and eBook cover file. I did that immediately. I had learnt in a hard way never to ignore the gentle nudge.

Thank God I obeyed, … Because a few days later till now, the phone tablet has refused to boot till completion. Three repair centres later, I m finally accepting that the tab may never work again.

If that had been all, would have breathed a sigh of relief, but then the trusty old laptop I d borrowed from my mum also developed a fault. A couple cybercafes- later and leaning on a senior colleague for use of her laptop occasionally; we are finally here. Behind schedule but definitely done.


Had to give up on the Okada books idea because the email I sent asking how to give out some free copies of the book even when there is a price on the site; went unanswered..

Kindle solved that problem and so occasionally I will be giving out free Kindle copies. Yay!

P.S .

2 major changes…

Reduced the book size in order to make it handy and edited the book in order to make it as concise as possible. When you are depressed , reading voluminous tomes is not usually a favourite activity.

Looking ahead with Hope

Random Musings …

Random musings …


I am a testimony that life does not end when everything turns topsy – turvy. That what your eye sees is often different from what the camera captures…
That there is always hope…
That today’s struggles and pains are simply a foundation for an about to be unveiled glorious beauty.

It is not because I have all that I want that I write this…

This is a solemn acknowledgement of God’s mercies and gratitude for how He has helped me thus far.

In September 2013, it looked like my world ended… it was an avalanche of challenges and at the time, things really looked hopeless…

NYSC looked like it was a closed door, a long relationship ended and then Malaria ( not the regular malaria ooo) happened and completely changed my perspective about healthcare access and life. Clinical Depression became a personal reality ; one I was not prepared for ,, nor even equipped at the time to deal with.
2014 was a period of trying to find my way back to hope … it was a struggle… a really tough struggle.
Thank God for all the friends and family who consistently prayed for me and kept loving me through it all.

Thank God for the ones who did not… Losing those friendships toughened the weak parts of me and helped me to realise the importance of value.
For all my friends who struggle with depression… stay strong.
It may look bad, it may even feel really bad, but it is never all bad.

It is simply a veil that must be opened before the light shines again.
You are a winner and you will win this too…

Do not be afraid of the changes life may bring. Embrace every moment and look up to the sun … and the rays of abiding hope.


I m not sure why I had to post this just now. I hope it helps someone out there … to hold on to hope…



The Song of the Sun

The Song of the Sun

It’s a brand new day.

The sun is shining.

It’s gonna be alright.

It’s a brand new day.

Drop your fears at the foot of the bed,

As you step out of your room today,

Open up your heart to the beautiful possibilities ahead.

Join me to sing…
It’s a brand new day… yeah , yeah… yeah…

It’s a brand new day.

Look at the rays of the sun,

Look at the way it calls out to you,

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Revel in the brightness,

For it’s a brand new day,

and yeah the sun is shining,

It’s a brand new day.
– Onaoluwa Abimbola (2014)

When troubles come

Still give thanks.

When the words hurt like spiky nails,

Or the delays weary the soul,

Still give thanks

Difficult though it may be.


Must life’s road ever be smooth?

The rough and tumble needs precede,

Before Victory chants ascend.


So in thankfulness, weary steps fly,

Songs, the toil of a bleak day breaks,

Joy the balm of tired souls;

Making always supple, my thanks muscle be.


Onaoluwa Abimbola 2016.

Already in this new year, there have been challenges that make the songs pause. It thus reminds me of the 5th 2016 Rules – Be thankful whatever each day brings. So whether it is being stuck in traffic in a poor network zone, cut off from civilization/help or missed appointments, job challenges or even health issues. Someone somewhere has passed through a similar thing; persevered and triumphed.

So, I will focus on the present task, remain thankful and keep growing. What about you?


Be thankful always…

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If you will not give thanks,

What is left to do?

Perhaps to mope?

Or worry?


None of the other options is useful,

They bring more troubles,

and give no gain.


So, what will I do?

I will give thanks.

Laugh and dance with joy.

What about you?


Onaoluwa Abimbola 2016


These are my thoughts on Rule 1 of the  2016 Rules.